Available Healing Tools

The Mend Your Light Membership is a platform where you can experience our Relationship Foundations and Healing Courses at an affordable price. Jonathan and Alicia Decker answer your questions about trauma recovery, emotional wellness, mental health, and more! 

You love your friends. You love your family. But sometimes it feels like there's a rift between you, and it's getting wider. Misunderstandings, ugly fights, shutting down, and fundamental differences threaten your closeness. 

Our Relationship Foundations courses are here to give you the skills to turn conflict into closeness, differences into growth, and frustration into joyful connection. They're meant to be taken in this order, as each one builds on the last: Closeness Through Conflict, Family Councils, Connecting with Personality Types, Love Languages, and Couples Foundations. Happier, healthier relationships await you!

There are so many experiences in life to learn from and grow through! 

Sometimes though, if you don't have the right tools or enough support, it feels like an insurmountable mountain to climb. No fear! You do not need to climb those mountains in life alone. We and the Mended Light community are here to support you as we learn and grow together. Each week there are new video courses, designed specifically for you, such as Moving Through Grief, Healthy Dating and so much more! So join us, as we make the world a brighter place together.

You've got questions about trauma recovery, mental health, and relationships. We all do! Every month Alicia and Jonathan combine their experiences, training, and learning to offer you answers, resources, and guidance. Every month they'll cover new topics and engage directly with you! Rewatch the Q&A's right here!

They say knowledge is power, and that's true. But knowledge is also healing. Every month you're invited to join Jonathan and Alicia in reading a different book that will lift you in your healing journey and point you towards emotional wellness and relationship mastery. Enjoy new audio discussions every week and interact with Alicia and Jonathan every month in a live discussion!

Step into a realm of thrilling knowledge and riveting challenges at Mended Light's online games. Buckle up and test your knowledge of our  - from Friends to Euphoria to Bridgerton. Show off your expertise, compete against fellow quiz enthusiasts by earning Engagement Points, and claim your place among the top ranks. Not only will you emerge as a true champion, but you'll also have the chance to win fabulous swag, merch, and prizes! Join us now at Mended Light and let the games begin!

Trauma can be an overwhelming and isolating experience. You may feel like you're the only one who has gone through it, or that there's no hope for moving forward. But the truth is, you don't have to face it alone. 

3 Keys to Healing and Hope After Divorce

(and How to Cope with the Loss and Transition)

Trade chaos, uncertainty, and despair for resiliency, strength, and hope. 

Sometimes we forget who we are and spend our time and energy trying to earn our worth and find our belonging. This is simply not true. This is a place to remember and share the message that is worth repeating until you feel the truth of it in your heart, I am Enough, You are enough, Each of us is Enough, just as we are, here, now.  

The people you adore can also drive you crazy. Sometimes you struggle to get your needs met, or to meet those of a loved one. Resolving conflict and connecting with someone vastly different from you can be a real challenge. The solutions to these common struggles lie in understanding personality. This course unlocks the secrets.